| Location | Coatbridge |
| Age | 19 days |
| Cause of Death | Rare Heart Condition |
| Date of Birth | 01/10/1993 |
| Date of Death | 20/10/1993 |
| Visitors | 1,577 since 02/10/2008 |
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BRENDAN ,Thank you for being my son. I carried you for nine months and felt you grow inside me. Then suddenly onthe 1st oct, you were there. It took me a while to see you β there seemed to be a cot full of wires and tubes. But you were there in the middle, the smallest and most precious bundle. I wished and prayed and hoped that you would be strong and you were. After a few day's I realised you were a miracle. You proved everyone wrong.You fought with all your might.
Our twenty days together were filled with love and smiles. I thank God for memories. You keep the nurses on there toes, But above everything, you smiled. Even when I couldnβt, you smiled.
Iβve been feeling sad this week, but Iβve also felt happy and lucky. My happiness will last longer than my sadness.
I believe that you were never really meant to live on our earth. You are too special. I think you belong in heaven where you have a special job to do. But for some reason, I was chosen. God decided to let me borrow you for twenty days. You came to me to make me into a better person and give me love and memories that will enrich my life.
Everyone says that theyβre sorry but they shouldnβt be because Iβm not. Iβm grateful. After our twenty days you fell asleep, you suffered from a hypoplastic left ventrical heart syndrome. We shared the most amazing moment. For just a few seconds I became as brave as you and we said goodbye.
I know youβre always going to be with me.
Thank you BRENDAN . I love you sweetheart. Be a good boy.
All my love and kisses.
Mummy and Daddy xxxx
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merry christmas xx
SLEEP TIGHT ANGEL XXXX
GOODNIGHT SWEETHEART
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Eighteenth Birthday - by Rosalind Roberts
Your 18th Birthday and I sit here with a broken heart
Knowing we should be together not two worlds apart
I wish I was with you so I could share your day
All I can do is send 18 balloons your way
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I feel so helpless I don't know what I should do
It is so hard living on Earth without you
I know I should be crying with happiness today
Instead silent tears of pain fall on your Birthday
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Everyday I miss you even more than I can tell
Being without you is like a nightmare as well
Eighteen years since the day that you were born
Now I sit with a heart that is broken and torn
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My tears flow, I cannot help but weep
For now my Angel rests in eternal sleep
I feel so alone, I feel so lost
You went away at such a high cost
copyright© Rosalind Roberts 3/11/2010
Happy 18th Birthday Son - by Saralyn Mc Afee Smith
So many years now that you’ve been gone,
Yet always you’re in my heart.
I wish that I could understand
Why it was you had to depart.
I often wonder how you’d be now--
This year you’d turn eighteen--
And I wonder if you’ve continued to age
In heaven, my precious Son.
I miss the sweetness of your smile,
And I wish that I could touch
The softness of your hair and cheek.
Oh, my Son, I miss you so much!
How I miss the talks we used to have
And the games we used to play!
Life’s not been the same, my precious Son,
Since you left that terrible day.
I went out to your grave today
And left flowers, balloons and such,
I sat on your bench and prayed a while—
It doesn’t seem like much.
But it’s all that I can give you now,
When you’re in heaven so far away,
I don’t even know if you can hear
The words I’ve tried to say.
I’ll never know the special joy
Of seeing you full-grown,
But I’m thankful for the years we had
And all the joy we’ve known.
And I look forward to the day
I’ll see you at heaven’s door—
The day I’ll get to hug you again
And be with you evermore!
So, Happy Birthday, my precious Son,
Whom I love eternally.
Though today you’re turning twenty-one,
My baby you’ll always be.
Copyright of Saralyn Mc Afee Smith
http://www.robbiesmith.com
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Happy Birthday In Heaven - by Winnie Lovett
"Happy Birthday Brendan"
It's sure to be the best one yet,
Though you left us here behind.
Did you think that we'd forget?
Your cake this year, will surely be,
A beauty to behold.
With the icing made of Silver,
And the candles made of Gold.
Yes, your birthday in Heaven,
Will be such a grand affair.
And I know you'll look so lovely,
With a halo in your hair.
The Angels will come from everywhere,
To sing your birthday song.
And I know they'll be so happy,
That you've joined, God's Happy Throng.
No I can't send a card this year,
Or give a gift so fine.
So I'll just send a special prayer,
To that wonderful Son of yours.
A butterfly lights beside us like a sunbeam
And for a brief moment its glory
and beauty belong to our world
But then it flies again
And though we wish it could have stayed...
We feel lucky to have seen it.
xxxxx love always xxxxx
Mum I'm an Angel now
My spirit will be free
I'm an Angel now in heaven
So please don't cry for me
I was choosen by our Lord above
And now I'm in his care
Whenever you need me
Just look inside yor heart
I promise I'll be there
No one can ever take away
Our bond with one another
For I'll always be your precious child
As you'll always be my mother
So if you cannot find your way
Or the road home seems far
Just look up to the heavens
And I'll be your guiding star
Mum I'm an Angel now
My spirit will be free
I'm an Angel now in heaven
Theres no need to cry for me xxx xxx xxx xxx
Someone who cares ♥
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God saw you getting tired
God saw you getting tired
And a cure was not to be
So He put His arms around you
And whispered 'Come with Me.'
With tearful eyes We watched you
And saw you fade away
Although we loved you dearly
We could not make you stay.
A golden heart stopped beating
A much loved child at rest
God broke our hearts to prove to us
He only takes the best.
It's lonesome here without you
We miss you more each day
Life doesn't seem the same
Since the day you went away.
When days are sad and lonely
And everything goes wrong
We seem to hear you whisper
'Chin up and carry on.'
Each time we see your picture
You seem to smile and say
'Don't cry, I'm in God's keeping
We'll meet again someday.'

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